HOW TO HEAL ABANDONMENT: Tips on Abandonment Therapy and Abandonment Recovery...
Dear Fellow Abandonmates, I get frequent requests for individual psychotherapy from people visiting my website or reading my abandonment books. Due to scheduling issues, I’m able to give only...
View ArticleHOW TO KEEP ABANDONMENT FROM SABOTAGING MY LIFE
I’ve received thousands of letters from people telling me how abandonment trauma has wrecked their lives. Anxiety overwhelms them when they attempt a new relationship. They feel a painful lack of trust...
View ArticleWhy Do I Fall Out of Love? Five Tips to Avoid Losing Interest
You feel the connection at first while you’re pursuing someone. The newness keeps you interested. But as soon as you become sure of them – let’s say they start to attach to you, desire your company,...
View ArticleABANDONMENT vs. BORDERLINE: 12 Helping Tasks for Coping with Emotional Hijacking
Abandonment creates an emotional crisis of such intensity and duration that it mimics a full blown borderline episode. This has caused many a therapist to diagnose borderline personality disorder (BPD)...
View ArticleWhy Does Divorce Create Such Turmoil? (As seen on Movingpastdivorce.com)
Abandonment is our first fear. It is primal and universal to all human beings. Abandonment is the special element that makes loss of a job, separation, bereavement and divorce so painful. Abandonment...
View ArticleREVERSING SELF SABOTAGE AND OVERCOMING ABANDONMENT
Self sabotage is the residual of unresolved abandonment. Its lingering insecurity and self doubt cause us to forfeit our long range goals. What about you? Do you sabotage your relationships? Your...
View ArticleARE YOU ALONE, STUCK IN A PATTERN AND CAN’T GET OUT? 10 Ways Out!
Millions of people are caught up in cycles of abandonment. Why do they keep repeating the same patterns over and over and what can they do to break free? One common pattern I call “abandoholism.”...
View ArticlePost Traumatic Stress Disorder of Abandonment: Why Some People are more Prone...
Causes of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder of Abandonment Part Two There is a difference between Post Traumatic Stress (PTS) and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). The difference is that the latter...
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